Latina? Who, me?
I was recently invited to speak at at a conference to discuss the ways in which I live and “navigate multiple, sometimes conflicting identities” – as queer, femme, mixed race, transnational, and how said identities influence how I see “life on the margins.” The interesting part….I was invited as the “Latina” on the panel. I [...]
The New Voter – MixedFolk Style
In mid-June of this year, SwirlPhilly hosted Philadelphia’s first official Loving Day events. We took a trip to the Franklin Institute for a viewin of their “RACE: Are we really so different?” exhibit. We also received permission to hold a discussion within the exhibit space. It was a great opportunity for us to share our [...]
"Family" Woes – Disappointed
I haven’t heard from my bio-father since the day after Thanksgiving. I haven’t heard from my bio-brother since the day before that. I’ve left two voice mail messages, but I am not going to keep calling. I am not even sure what to think about this. I am disappointed and a bit hurt. I somewhat [...]
My Hair Has Its Own Zipcode
This post has been stuck in my draft bin for quite some time. I have a habit of starting posts and getting distracted. Reading Light-Skinned-ed Girl’s entry about biracial hair made me think about how my hair has always played a central role in my struggle for identity. I recently got my hair cut. Six [...]
Update: New Miss Switzerland Gets Racist Attacks
As I previously reported, there was much controversy around Whitney Toyloy winning the Miss Switzerland pageant. Several critics questioned her preparedness for the role and responsibilities under the crown due to her age. Others questioned whether a bi-racial woman could actually represent Switzerland, that she did not reflect what it meant to be Swiss. Several [...]
The Private Club a.k.a. Black America
For eight years I have knocked on Black America’s door in hopes that someone would let me in. Instead, I keep getting a “thanks but no thanks” card in the mail. I have forged several meaningful friendships with women of color si nce I moved to America. However, I am disappointed with my interactions with [...]













